i’m so thankful to have come across loc’d queens and kings that’ve affirmed me in my decision, not only directly, but also in loving themselves so shamelessly. for years now, i’ve been unlearning this programming to have every curl and coil laid, and apologetic. by 2019, i was convinced that freeformin’ into locs was gonna be the most supportive experience towards this process. and it has, even in those short 9 months since i began. evidently, in all her forms, she brings lessons. when i see her, i’m reminded to be expressive, and unfiltered. to flow with change, so much so to find safety in it. to honor my feelings, and my vision. to always see me, especially when others don’t.

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